Originally written in 2013 | Updated in 2025
This is a semi-fictional and original work by Jonah Chipeco.


Love No Longer Just Happens—It’s Chosen

He didn’t beg.
He simply asked,
“Love me.”

And in his eyes, I saw something familiar—
the fire I once feared,
now refined and full of peace.

This wasn’t a demand.
It was a door.
And I held the key.


From Memory to Meaning

I used to believe love had to sweep me off my feet.
That it had to prove itself first,
remind me of what it once was.

But here he stood—
no grand gesture, no spotlight—
just presence.

He was a man from my past,
but this time, he wasn’t holding pain.
He was holding purpose.

And I found myself asking,
Can I love him now, not for who he was, but who he’s become?


A Whisper That Changed Everything

“Choose to love me,” he said again.

“Why?” I asked softly.
Not out of resistance,
but wonder.

He didn’t answer with words.
He didn’t have to.
Because in that silence, I understood—
Love begins the moment we allow it to.

And my yes…
was permission for him to begin loving me again.


The Kind of Love I’ve Been Waiting For

He kissed me.

Not with urgency.
But with knowing.

The kind of kiss that says:
“I’ve missed you.”
“I see you.”
“You’re home.”

And just like that—
the man I used to love,
the one I feared would always be a question mark,
became the man I finally chose with confidence.


A New Yes

“So this is a yes?” he whispered.

I laughed through a quiet tear.
“Hmm… what does yes mean again?”

I braced myself—
wondering if this meant rules, expectations, sacrifice.

He simply answered:
“Yes means I am yours… and you are mine.”

And suddenly, all the fears, all the maybes,
melted into one sacred yes.


The Ending That Feels Like a Beginning

I used to wait to be chosen.
Now, I choose.

I choose the man who leads not just with strength,
but with surrender.
Not just with passion,
but with purpose.

This is no longer about first love or perfect timing.
This is about presence,
about faith,
about walking forward—together.

I choose him.
Fully.
Finally.
And freely.


The Man I Choose to Love is the final chapter of a three-part fictional series.
Also read: The Man I Used to Love and The Man Whom I Love.

Watch for the epilogue post: Letters to John.


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2 responses to “The Man I Choose to Love”

  1. The Man Whom I Used to Love | Flaring Felicity

    […] The Man Whom I Used to Love is part of the Blogger’s three part series of original fictional stories.  Also read The Man Whom I Love and The Man Whom I Choose to Love. […]

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